I believe we are all given or guided to exactly what we need to live an amazing life - to enjoy the true happiness and fulfillment of life well lived. The problem is that we're not always able to see it - even if it's right in front of us... and has a neon sign flashing saying, "right here." No, I'm not kidding... it can be THAT obvious.
Often times the gift for us is very powerful, others can see it and perhaps we can feel it but something still causes us to resist. Fear?